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Dementia is an ugly thing, and Mary's mental state is deteriorating steadily day by day.
Although we still can't see the whole puzzle, we are trying to figure out what piece we play, what our role is in Mary's life. If it wasn't to bring her here (as originally intended) and care for her during her last years of life, what is it???
Perhaps our job is to protect her from those who are more than willing to take what she will give them, (even when she doesn't realize she needs that protection). We didn't get into this to fight a battle, just to love someone in need. But perhaps that's exactly what we are supposed to do. It's really hard to tell at this point. Doors open, doors close, paths look clear, then cloudy...
I'll admit that we are both overwhelmed, we aren't sure who to trust, what family members, what "old friends", what employees at the nursing home, who is honest, who is out to get for themselves? We'll keep on keeping on, and see how it goes. God knows what He's doing...that I am certain of.
On to something a bit brighter, because I canNOT let my entire day be absorbed by these thoughts or I'll go nutty. :)
Have you ever been to a natural spring in Florida? There are over 700 natural springs in Florida. Did you know this means Florida has one of the largest concentration of springs on the earth?? Of these springs, 18 are Florida State parks, and a few days ago we visited one of them...Blue Spring State Park.
There wasn't a LOT to do at the park itself, but since it was a short getaway for us, it worked out nicely. We got there on Sunday afternoon and decided to park the RV near the spring and take a dip in the water. We changed into our suits and headed down the boardwalk.
Right off, I knew the place was TOO crowded for our tastes. There were a lot of people, loud music, etc... We continued down the boardwalk to the last "entrance" before the spring head, walked down the steps and stuck our toes in the water.
Then we stopped. It was COLD!!!! I got in to my waist and it was COLDDDDDDD!!!! Mike toe dipped, lol. We then decided that we would come back the next day at high noon when the sun would help out, lol...late afternoon in 72 degree water was not workin' for this girl.
We found our campsite and set up camp. That evening we took a bike ride around the campground, most of the "day visitors" had gone home by now and it was serene and calm....just our style.
Have you ever seen a Luv Bug? yuck. We have one Luv Bug season...apparently Blue Spring's area has TWO...cause they were EVERYWHERE!
Hmmm, a BBQ sounds appetizing... ?
There were a lot of large old Oaks...they were beautiful with the moss hanging down. This is Mikey looking out over the St. Johns river....we didn't see any, but that place is known to be teaming with gators...ewwwww
Canoes...
Pretty...
Cool reflection on calm waters...just so you know, this is NOT the part where you swim...unless you want to get eaten...
If you want to take a boat ride, you can pay $22 bucks and go for a tour...we didn't.
We just relaxed for the rest of the evening and had a nice dinner of chicken Ceaser Lasagne and Spring Green Salad... yum.
Monday we slept in,...nice. :) Then we suited up and rode our bikes to the spring area.
Guess who we saw there? Barbara!
You know...
Barbara Manatee, manatee, manatee...
You are the one for me, one for me, one for me...
Sent from up above, up above, up above...
You are the one I love, one I love, one I love...
(Yes, I watched WAY too many Veggie Tales at one time)
No Moleste!
You are not to touch or feed manatees, but there is nothing you can do if they swim right up to you and sit there...neat.
That's my honey! Look how beautifully clear the water is.
This is the spring head...tons of water pours out from the earth every day through this hole in the ground...how cool. If you are a scuba diver, you can go down there (with a buddy). Sounds scary to me...
Mikey posing above the "cave"...
Awe! :) That's me and my honey bunches... :)
There I am...gator bait! :) Kidding...I don't think gators come near the cold spring head...at least not often...yikes.
There were a lot of fish in the shallower waters...
The "jumping" platform...
Here is Barbara from above the water..isn't she cute?
She was a little overly friendly, just joining in the fun...
What a lovely view...
The trees are majestic and the water so clear...
Monday afternoon we recieved the phone call (mentioned above) and decided that we would leave the next day instead of staying 3 nights.
So we decided to have a picnic lunch...
This is the original house of the Thursby family who lived right next to the spring...that would have been so fun...
The spring way back when...
The house way back when...
Mrs. Thursby's kitchen...looks big and pretty, but it looks like a lot of work ahead of her just to make dinner!
We just hung out at the campsite and enjoyed homemade pizza for dinner (yeah, we don't eat like campers, lol).
Hey, do you remember my "lost" cookie sheet???? Well, guess what????? I found it!!! Yea!
As I was preparing to make pizza, I stood in my little RV kitchen...
Opened the cabinet below the stove to get my pizza pan...
And what did I find???
I guess I must have put it in there to take on our camping trip to the Keys a couple months ago...you remember that "attempt" at a vacation, right? :) Well, there it was, I can rest knowing it is safe, lol.
Today I am going to my best girlfriend Kim's house and we are gonna do girly stuff...'cause that's what we do. We are going to do a sewing project together...I love that! Can't wait! :)
We shall show you soon what we made! :)
